There are a lot of things that I worry about when the thought of child bearing and rearing comes to mind - how will I fair as a mother? Motherhood requires a lot of commitment - both monetary and otherwise. My hubby and I would like to provide our children with a head start or at least the means/basics to compete with the rest of generation Y (not sure whether it'll still be gen-Y, else it'll be gen-Z by then). Cost of living and education is increasing in leaps and bounds - would our level of income be able to warrant them a head start? This question keeps revolving in my mind - my gut feel is no however I cannot afford to put off motherhood that much longer as I'll be pushing 30 soon. *Sigh* When I do share pictures of "mini me and hubby" in the future; you can then say that I have found an answer - else it'll be the worse case scenario, I have to because I have crossed the 3rd decade mark of my life thus cannot delay any further.
I am very proud of my friends who are mothers now and when the time comes - I can be proud of myself too.
3 comments:
some things must be there b4 the kid comes, some things only come after the kid.
either way, one kid is never a wrong move. think more when you're considering the 2nd or 3rd though :p
Thanks for sharing ;-)
Hmm, I must say, the 30's is getting scary for me as well. But I am sure u & Wei Siang can afford for your future baby now ;)
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